How to write better Letters
Ron Swanson gives the best letter writing advice I’ve ever heard. Grab a piece of paper, fold it, go get a piece of nature, tape it on the paper, boom a romantic letter. That is great advice but what do we actually write in it after our arts and crafts project?
- Start with a heartfelt greeting
A love letter should begin with a warm and heartfelt greeting that sets the tone for the rest of the letter. Consider addressing your wife by a term of endearment that you both use, such as “my love” or “sweetheart.” This can immediately create a sense of intimacy and connection.
- Be specific
Write specifically what you love about her. Instead of using generic phrases or cliches, focus on what you love and appreciate about your wife. Think about the little things that make her unique and special, such as the way she laughs or her kind heart. Be specific in your descriptions and use examples to illustrate your points.
- Share your feelings
I know this doesn’t come easy for us men but if you can’t write it, then you’ll never be able to say it. Practice the feeling muscle on paper before you do it out-loud. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and share your emotions with your wife. Tell her how much you love her, how much she means to you, and how grateful you are to have her in your life.
- Be grateful
If you get stuck and don’t know where to go with it, just start reflecting on all the things you are grateful for in your life and relationship. This usually gets the ball rolling for me.
- End with a vision for the future
What are you hopeful for and looking forward to in the future. Who do you hope you will become. Talk about being old together. Talk about what you hope for your kids.
Writing a love letter to your wife can be a beautiful and meaningful way to express your love and appreciation. By following these tips, you can create a letter that truly reflects your feelings and strengthens your relationship. So go ahead, grab a pen and paper, and start writing!
